Tuesday, August 18, 2009

A Tree for Tae

On Sunday we invited our neighbors to our front yard for a tree planting in honor of Tae. We wanted to celebrate our new family addition with a symbol of Tae's rootedness in our family and neighborhood:


Before we planted the tree, Mike cut off a bracelet I had been wearing for the last few months that some dear Ministerial Association friends had both given and worn themselves as a reminder of my connection to Tae even though he hadn't yet arrived in our arms. It was my "umbilical cord" to Tae (and a Chinese belief called "the red thread" -- that there is an invisible, unbreakable red thread that connects all those who are destined to be together), but since Tae is now in our arms, we cut the bracelet off and buried it under the tree -- new life for everyone!


Here's the tree going in the ground (it's a beautiful Coral Bark Japanese Maple):
Neighbors and friends, especially the kids, helped put dirt on the tree and water it:



Afterwards we all had a toast to Tae. He loves watching people clink glasses, so we used real wine glasses for everyone and kept clinking and toasting and Tae would smile!

The tree will grow as Tae grows, reminding him he is rooted in his family forever:


Thanks for watching our little family grow, too!

5 comments:

  1. I have recently been wishing we had planted trees when our kids were born, especially now that they have both left the nest. I am glad you are all so happy and I love the picture with Tae on Jana's hip in the timeless "mom" stance! Also I was thinking how lucky you are that Tae is a good eater. Hope you are all getting more sleep too!

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  2. Looks like you are all doing well! I also love the tree idea...what a cool thing!
    Blessings!

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  3. We planted a "living Christmas tree" one year when we lived in Alabama. Then went back years later to see that it had grown big and strong. It's nice to have a tangible reminder!
    Debbie

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  4. Hiya -

    So great to catch up with your news! I lost track as we've moved from Philly to Frederick, MD in May. Tae is such a sweetie! This is such a fun age (aside from the teething). I am so thrilled for you 3 and excited to watch your story unfold!

    JulieO

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  5. Jana and Michael!
    I hadn't visited your site for awhile, so it was great to be able to see how life is going for little Tae! What a WONDERFUL little son he is for you, and what a lucky boy to have you both as such very loving parents!
    Sharon Burkhart

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